Normally I wouldn’t necessarily share whether or not I’ve been naked in front of a guy I’ve been seeing, but I don’t want you feeling ashamed of your body. Yes, I’ve been naked in front of him. No, I don’t feel self conscious in front of him at all. No, it’s not because I’ve grown fonder of my body lately. I’ve never been naked in front of a guy and felt self conscious no matter how I felt about my body at the time. If the guy is in bed with you, he obviously thinks you’re attractive enough and likes what he sees enough to want to bring you to bed in the first place. There are SOOOO many things about my body I could easily be ashamed of (e.g. stretch marks, tummy rolls, skin discoloration, etc.), but if I were to be hung up on all of that, how could I enjoy the simplicity of just being with this amazing guy who sees beauty in it all? Today, we were just lying in bed all day naked. We didn’t do anything but cuddle and kiss all day long. When I’m lying certain ways, my arms look bigger and my boobs look funnier and smaller and when I sit up I have a bunch of rolls and my stretch marks become really prominent but all I was focusing on was him being there with me. He likes me enough to want to just sit around all day and do nothing and even though there are so many things I could easily be self conscious about, what’s the point in paying attention to any of that when I have this amazing guy telling me how beautiful and cute and funny and perfect that I am? I promise you, no guy is going to get you in bed and then refuse to be with you because of the way your body looks, and if he does then he sure as hell doesn’t deserve someone as amazing as you anyways. Not everyone has the body of a Victoria’s Secret model and that’s okay!! Embrace your body! You’re beautiful and have nothing to be ashamed of.